A pal of mine has been having trouble in his marriage. He and his wife decided to divorce. While going down this course, what was left of their marriage was completely lost. They argued quite a bit, making their children feel like they were in the middle. The divorce has been awful! After it was final, my buddy decided to start taking care of himself. He stopped smoking and drinking. Also, he started living an all around healthy life. While on the road to recovery, he read a book called, "how to get back with your ex." He realized how much she meant to him. He had not been a good husband, or dad. Finally, he and his former wife mended their relationship. They are now getting remarried.