So you are sitting there with a broken heart and are asking yourself: how do I get my ex girlfriend back? I am a woman and I can tell you that there is one thing most man are not very good at: be romantic. Women and girls love romance and if she is still in love with you a romantic dinner or romantic gift can be helpful getting her back. There are a lot of websites on the internet offering information on romantic gift ideas. You can also write a poem. But make sure it does not sound silly. if this is the case, don’t do it! Silly poems are not romantic at all and she might laugh at you.