Do you often worry that you will not be able to keep his interest? If so, ask It’s just Lunch for help. You must be mentally engaging and fun to be around! Start participating in hobbies, such as sports or painting. If your only hobbies and interests are watching television, reading fashion magazines, and shopping you are boring. Can you carry on an intelligent conversation about a wide variety of topics so that he finds his time with you mentally stimulating? If you meet someone you like, get into some of the activities he or she is involved in. Make an effort and he or she will surely be interested.