Hey there, young lady — I know you have a lot of friends, and some of them simply can’t keep their mouth shut. I’m going to give you a good way that you can use if you want to learn how to get your ex boyfriend back — share your heart with your friends, especially those girlfriends of yours who you know will repeat everything you say to your ex. This is what you want — to communicate your feelings and intent, without actually meeting with him face to face, which may be impossible for you to do (at least for a while).