Sometimes things do not work on the first try or on the second try or even on the fifth try.  Sometimes due for one reason or another, it fails.  whatever it is that  we have spent so much on and hoped for does not work out like IVF Failure.  But the lesson here is to always get your hopes up. Do not lose hope because it will get better and the answers are not what we have hoped for but it is for the best in our situation.   And there are other options to if you failed in IVF.  Think about it and think of your goals.